Name?
Christy
Birthplace?
Richmond, VA
Current Location?
Small town right outside of Richmond :)
Hometown?
Small town right outside of Richmond :)
Nationality?
Caucasian.
but, i have Native American, English, Irish, & Scottish.
Eye Color?
Bright Green.
Hair Color?
DARK brown.
Height?
5'2"
Glasses or contacts?
i have both but, mostly just contacts.
i actually can't even tell you where my glasses are.
Piercings or tattoos?
ears, belly, nose! & two tattoos!
Single or taken:?
Married <3
Siblings names (if any)?
Robby & Danny.
Right Handed or Left Handed?
both but, mostly righty!
Any pets?
two dogs & a hermit crab. :)
Your greatest strength?
I'm easy going but, i stick up for myself!
Your Weakness?
I'm too forgiving, I give everyone more than 1 chance.
Your parents names?
Mom & Dad ;)
FAVORITES
Favorite color?
Yellow
Favorite flower?
sunflowers & lillies.
Favorite college basketball team?
DUKE!!!!
5 favorite movies?
A League of Their Own, Walk the Line, Sweet Home Alabama, Four Brothers, & Say Anything.
Favorite holiday?
Halloween!
Favorite physical feature on yourself?
my Eyes!
Your favorite pizza toppings?
Pepperoni
Favorite alcoholic drink of choice?
Beer - Coors Light
Liqour - Red Bull & Vodkas, Cranberry & Vodka, Mango Margarita's, Nerd Bombs, Wild Punch, Etc...
Favorite guilty pleasure?
Buffalo Wild Wings lol
Your favorite lunch meat?
Bologna - really.
Favorite non-sexual thing to do with a girl/guy?
Watching Movies, Amusement Parks, Maymont Park, Zoo, going to the beach, driving around, just enjoying each other's company :)
Favorite place to eat a romantic dinner?
anywhere.
Favorite season?
Summer.
Favorite cartoon character?
Strawberry Shortcake
Your favorite food?
Pasta, Seafood, Ice Cream...lol
Favorite Ice cream flavor?
birthday cake & chocolate fudge brownie!
Favorite subject(s) in school?
i loved Child Care in High School & now i like Psychology :) & History!
Favorite candy?
depends on my mood. :) i'm not that picky!
Favorite breakfast cereal?
Lucky Charms!!
Favorite person in your life?
My Husband <3
Favorite book of all time?
Water for Elephants :)
Favorite song?
"Open Arms" Journey
Your favorite park?
Maymont Park :)
Favorite place to be?
on the beach with my husband!
Your favorite sport to watch on TV?
all of them! LOVE football though!
Favorite TV show (Still running or ended)?
Sex and the City!
Favorite fast food restaurant?
Chik fil a!
Who is your favorite Disney Princess?
Jasmine
What would you consider your favorite T.V. station?
Lifetime, Disney, MTV, ESPN, WE, Oxygen....
Favorite names for a son?
Michael, Cash, Ace, Mason, Brock, Hunter...
What about favorite names for a daughter?
Saylor, Ryleigh, Jaycee, Marleigh, Paisleigh...
What is your favorite part of your life right now?
my supportive friends and family! and my even more supportive husband! even though he's not here right now :)
WHICH DO YOU PREFER
Chocolate or Vanilla?
Chocolate!
Long relationships or one night stand?
Long relationships!
Scary movies or comedies?
Depends on the mood! i love both :)
Short or long hair?
i prefer long hair for me.
Croutons or bacon bits?
neither.
Beach or lake?
the beach, hands down :)
Single or Group Dates?
depends, BOTH are fun!
McDonalds or Burger King?
i'd prefer neither...but i'd pick mcdonalds over BK any day!
Pepsi or Coke:
Pepsi!
Starbucks or elsewhere?
Starbucks.
Dogs or cats?
used to be cats, but now i like dogs more! dogs used to scare me...but i was also spoiled by the BEST cat in the world.
DO YOU's
Do you smoke?
Nope! i like my lungs :)
Do you sing?
Yes, I love singing!
Do you want to get married?
already there :)
Do you believe in yourself?
I do!
Do you get along with your parents?
For the most part, yes!
Do you go to church?
I did and then there was a lot of drama and my family left. I haven't been anywhere since.
Do you want children?
Someday...
Do you drink?
occasionally :)
Do you like to travel by plane?
i've only done it a few times but, i'd prefer to drive. it's so nice :)
Do you still watch cartoons on Saturday morning?
Ha, no. I sleep in!
Do you have a teddy bear?
Sailor Bear <3
Do you like thunderstorms?
NOT at ALL!!!
Do you play an instrument?
I do not..
Do you think Jesus is great?
Yeah.
Do you have any friends of the gay preference?
I do.
Do you consider yourself a party person or more apt to stay at home?
Depends on my mood but, im going to go with more of a party person. staying at home is boring.
HAVE YOU EVER
Have you ever fired a gun?
Yes!
Have you ever loved someone?
Yup.
Have you ever been caught doing something you weren't supposed to?
oh yeah...and paid the price for it.
Have you ever been with someone of the same sex?
No.
Have you ever get so drunk you don't remember the entire night?
Yes, been there. lol
Have you ever cried for no reason?
not very often..but, i'm sure i've had one of those days atleast once.
Have you ever cut your own hair?
Yes...lol i think every girl at one point has atleast tried to trim their own bangs. haha i did it in 8th grade HORRIBLE!!! they were soooo short i wore them back for half of 8th grade till i finally grew.
Have you ever skipped school?
Oh yeah...we could miss 20 days of first block...i missed exactly 20 LOL
Have you ever bungee jumped?
Nope.
Have you ever punched someone?
I have..
Have you ever been arrested?
I have.
Have you ever broken into someone's house?
Nope, my house & helped someone break into their own house.
Have you ever participated in a crime without getting caught?
oh yeah tons of times, but there WAS one time i did get caught. lol no good.
SOMETHING A LITTLE MORE MATURE
List your top fears: Failing, Not being good enough, always! Something happening to anyone i love...
What bill do you hate paying the most?
credit card bill haha
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
an Actress.
How many colleges did you attend?
a few actually. lol
What errand/chore do you despise?
Putting clothes away.
What is the biggest amount of money you have made from a yard sale?
no ideaa lol never had one of my own.
What are your views on marriage?
Marriage is about LOVE & LOVE does not see color, age, flaws etc...
I believe Marriage is for LIFE and, whoever you pick it should be for the right reasons.
I think people rush Marriages & Marry for the wrong reasons, people go into Marriage thinking "if it doesn't work out there is always divorce" & i do not believe in that or to even think like that.
What Hollywood star do you think resembles you best?
Miley Cyrus (i've heard it soo many times...)
Who from high school would you like to run into?
My Husband :) ahha
Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?
Oh gosh...Well, i wouldn't take them back exactly cause they were lessons learned by my boyfriend of 2 years from 5 years ago i wish i wouldn't have dragged it out as long as i did...i wasn't happy 6 months into the relationship but, i was made to believe i would not find better...& when i did break up with him i wish i wouldn't have still tried to "talk" to him & when Adam tried to hang out with me then i wish I would have gone with him instead...a lot of mistakes that back fired on me but, then again it ALL worked out like it was supposed to regardless...Because, here i am Married to Adam anyways :)
What famous person dead or alive would you like to have dinner with?
Marilyn Monroe, Kendra Baskett, Johnny Cash & June Carter...
How do you want to die?
I don't know...
What do you want to achieve in life?
Happiness always...give me future children a good life...& love & support my husband any way i can :)
How many jobs have you had?
5.
At this point in life, would you rather start a new career or relationship?
Start a new Career :)
Number of drugs you have taken?
I've only tried Pot...nothing else.
Your most missed memory?
Being young and not having a worry in the world.
What are your first thoughts upon waking up?
I wonder if i got any emails?? :)
What goals would you like to achieve this year?
hmm...get far into school possibly set myself up to graduate!
get a good job
take adam to disney world :)
save money (buy a house)
& love my husband.
Who would you like to see right now?
Adam!
Are you still friends with your ex's?
Only one.
What books are you reading (if any)?
"A Shore Thing" Snooki lol
What are your regrets?
No Regrets, Just Lessons Learned!
What song best describes your love life?
"Then" Brad Paisley <3
What do you want when you are sick?
sleep, soup & disney movies :)
What radio station is your car radio tuned to right now?
whichever one plays my ipod :)
Strangest place you have ever brushed your teeth?
Shower.
What country would you most like to visit?
GREECE!
How many pillows do you sleep with?
two :)
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Friday, March 4, 2011
Thank you for being a friend...
I have realized recently that i have some of the BEST FRIENDS a girl could ask for :) They honestly do not know how much they truly mean to me, now most Military Wives/Girlfriends/Fiances say that they felt that their "Civilian" friends did not understand what they were/are going through. Well, i have to say that my real life friends have been WAY MORE supportive then some(not all) of the Military Ladies i've come in contact with. Now, i'm sure there are some awesome ladies i have yet to meet & i hope to meet some of them soon but, right now i am content with the friends that i have in my life & have been there for me through everything and just because they may not know EXACTLY what i'm going through they still try their hardest to understand...although i do have a few girls woh are my besties who have also been through the Military Relationship so they do know how i feel & they are awesome to go to and talk to when i'm feeling down about it.
So to these friends that have always been there for me and who have kept me happy & busy through these months so far!! i love you guys to death & don't know where i'd be without such GREAT friends to spend my time with...So, Brittany PIC, Laurie, Tiff, Kat, Kristie, Stephanie, Nikki & Brittany!! You guys have been amazing friends!!! Thank You for being that way & always being there for me!!! you guys ROCK!!!
So to these friends that have always been there for me and who have kept me happy & busy through these months so far!! i love you guys to death & don't know where i'd be without such GREAT friends to spend my time with...So, Brittany PIC, Laurie, Tiff, Kat, Kristie, Stephanie, Nikki & Brittany!! You guys have been amazing friends!!! Thank You for being that way & always being there for me!!! you guys ROCK!!!
Sunday, February 27, 2011
When you "Assume" it makes an "ASS" out of "U" and "ME"
One of my biggest pet peeves is when people assume...and of course the title says it perfect of what happens when people assume too much.
I recently got asked "Why did i make such a big deal about not marrying for the Military when i did?"...umm...I married for the MILITARY?!? really?!? Thanks for sharing that one with me because, i had no idea that's what i did. For the record I was not making a big deal about marrying for the Military, i posted a status answering peoples questions about how i WAS NOT marrying for the Military & for a long time i did NOT want to do the Military thing and get married at the court house...but, things changed.
Yes, i did end up getting married at the court house. We had planned on a date to get married but, we were also betting he would be home around that time(Note to self: you can't plan anything in the Military, don't even get your hopes up at all, you will only end up disappointed) But, when we found out he'd be deploying and possibly going on underways around the original wedding date and then another possible deployment, this wedding was looking more and more like it was going to be either 2012 or 2013 before we'd be able to have the wedding and by 2013 i would be 25 almost 26...I want to start a family around that time not walking down the aisle.
Another thing that bugs me about that question is it's as if i just woke up one day and him and i looked at each other and said, hell why not? let's get married. Pssh, FALSE! He had proposed to me...We were getting married anyways...regardless of Military or No Military, we were STILL getting married. We were in the process of planning we had gone and looked at a Venue! Pssh, i didn't just get married because of the Military.
I got married because I wanted to be with him, I was ready to start our lives together & it didn't matter to me anymore if i even had a wedding as long as i was married to HIM, that's all i needed right there. Military or No Military...I know he's the one i would have ended up with. I tried again to possibly plan a wedding for the end of 2012 but, by then we'll be married for 2 years and it just didn't seem necessary anymore...I want to really live like a married couple...I hope in 5 or 10 years we can renew our vows for all our family and friends & hope they understand that the decision we made was what was best for us and what we wanted. I didn't need a a fancy wedding to make it perfect...All i needed was HIM and that's how it was, it was me, him, & the commissioner. But, don't assume i got married just because of the Military...the bottom line is we were getting married either way. We just happened to get married because, there was no way for sure we could plan a wedding for when we wanted too.
Questions like that make the wrong assumptions & i know this person was just being spiteful...but, i know a lot of other people were thinking the SAME thing. Please, My Husband is my best friend he's been there for me for YEARS. Who picked me up EVERYTIME my ex-boyfriend's made me cry, hurt me, cheated on me etc..? He did. He has been there and ALWAYS will be there for me...So, regardless what any of you think or assume this was going to happen whether it was October 29th 2010 or Aug 28th, 2011 or October 27th, 2012.
I'm really hoping that these negative posts come to a hault. I'm so over people assuming, spreading rumors, & just being assholes in general. Not that i really have to justify my actions to ANYONE but, it also helps to get things off my chest so i don't hold all these negative things in. I'm very thankful for my true friends & my very loving & awesome family...and of course my even more amazing husband, everyone of them keep me sane & i can't thank them enough! :) Hopefully, people will start concentrating on their own business instead of mine( a girl can only dream!)
Can't wait to have some positive posts coming up...till next time :)
I recently got asked "Why did i make such a big deal about not marrying for the Military when i did?"...umm...I married for the MILITARY?!? really?!? Thanks for sharing that one with me because, i had no idea that's what i did. For the record I was not making a big deal about marrying for the Military, i posted a status answering peoples questions about how i WAS NOT marrying for the Military & for a long time i did NOT want to do the Military thing and get married at the court house...but, things changed.
Yes, i did end up getting married at the court house. We had planned on a date to get married but, we were also betting he would be home around that time(Note to self: you can't plan anything in the Military, don't even get your hopes up at all, you will only end up disappointed) But, when we found out he'd be deploying and possibly going on underways around the original wedding date and then another possible deployment, this wedding was looking more and more like it was going to be either 2012 or 2013 before we'd be able to have the wedding and by 2013 i would be 25 almost 26...I want to start a family around that time not walking down the aisle.
Another thing that bugs me about that question is it's as if i just woke up one day and him and i looked at each other and said, hell why not? let's get married. Pssh, FALSE! He had proposed to me...We were getting married anyways...regardless of Military or No Military, we were STILL getting married. We were in the process of planning we had gone and looked at a Venue! Pssh, i didn't just get married because of the Military.
I got married because I wanted to be with him, I was ready to start our lives together & it didn't matter to me anymore if i even had a wedding as long as i was married to HIM, that's all i needed right there. Military or No Military...I know he's the one i would have ended up with. I tried again to possibly plan a wedding for the end of 2012 but, by then we'll be married for 2 years and it just didn't seem necessary anymore...I want to really live like a married couple...I hope in 5 or 10 years we can renew our vows for all our family and friends & hope they understand that the decision we made was what was best for us and what we wanted. I didn't need a a fancy wedding to make it perfect...All i needed was HIM and that's how it was, it was me, him, & the commissioner. But, don't assume i got married just because of the Military...the bottom line is we were getting married either way. We just happened to get married because, there was no way for sure we could plan a wedding for when we wanted too.
Questions like that make the wrong assumptions & i know this person was just being spiteful...but, i know a lot of other people were thinking the SAME thing. Please, My Husband is my best friend he's been there for me for YEARS. Who picked me up EVERYTIME my ex-boyfriend's made me cry, hurt me, cheated on me etc..? He did. He has been there and ALWAYS will be there for me...So, regardless what any of you think or assume this was going to happen whether it was October 29th 2010 or Aug 28th, 2011 or October 27th, 2012.
I'm really hoping that these negative posts come to a hault. I'm so over people assuming, spreading rumors, & just being assholes in general. Not that i really have to justify my actions to ANYONE but, it also helps to get things off my chest so i don't hold all these negative things in. I'm very thankful for my true friends & my very loving & awesome family...and of course my even more amazing husband, everyone of them keep me sane & i can't thank them enough! :) Hopefully, people will start concentrating on their own business instead of mine( a girl can only dream!)
Can't wait to have some positive posts coming up...till next time :)
Friday, February 25, 2011
sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me
Well, atleast that's how the saying goes & usually for me it's true. It takes a lot for someone to actually hurt my feelings and usually the only people that CAN hurt my feelings are people that i care about the most...and well i wouldn't really say this person hurt my feelings exactly but, they definately hit a nerve.
I was told tonight by someone that "they hope my marriage fails quickly"....wow! now, they said a lot of other really mean things to me but, this is the one that hit me right in the gut. You hope my marriage fails quickly? really?...what could i have EVER done that bad for someone to wish that upon me? Now, this person is not a friend of mine(anymore) They once were, i suppose about 4 or 5 years ago when i was dating an ex, let's just say...this person told me something about this certain ex that i didn't believe & chose the ex's side instead...okay, so yes i see that the person that told me was trying to be a friend i get that but, i was also 18 or 19 years old...young, naieve, and blinded by "love". Majority of girls my age back then would have reacted the same way...this person has been holding this grudge against me for that long. I apparently told the whole town what happened, FALSE! I told a few of my best friends at the time that i thought could be trusted, of course i was 18 or 19 i believed everyone back then. Those "friends" of course decided to twist my story a bunch of different ways to this person & instead of this person asking me they believed them. I've apologized a bunch of times to this person about not believing her then, but that was then and this is now i'm older now & have learned a great deal from my mistakes, I got out of that relationship(4-5 years ago!) & am with someone that makes me happier than i have ever been. I do not speak ill of ANY of the parties involved and never have & have always wished the best for every single one of them including the ex..people don't work out & that's the way it goes, we both found better for us & that should be all that matters. But, to wish that my marriage fails quickly is the one of the most horrible things you could say to someone.
And continuing to harrass me about this 4-5 years later is ridiculous & spreading rumors about me? calling me a slut? I've never been with anyone that was not my boyfriend. I've been in 4 "serious" relationships since i was 15(and now i'm 23) and 1 of them is now my husband. And, whatever "good friend" of mine that told this person that i admitted to YOU that i had an STD, you seriously need to check yourself again. I was cheated on by an ex, i got checked and I was clean since then i have had two boyfriends now 1 of them is my husband both have them have both been clean the whole time. So, whoever that so-called "good friend" of mine is you better hope i don't find out it was you spreading this stuff about me.
I am a very good person & i respect everyone i meet. I'm not sure why people always thought it was OK to attack me, bully me, or pick on me ever since i started middle school. I'm human and i have family & friends who do love and care about me and want the best for me & i can't ever help to think about how i'd feel if someone has been doing this to my kid for years no matter what their age & how would you feel? If your kid was being bullied for really no reason at all or if someone you loved & cared about was being attacked & harrassed? thats the kinds of things i think about before i ever talk about, talk down, pick on, harrass, attack, or bully anyone. I always tell myself..."Someone out there loves & cares about that person" I wish more people could think like that. I am a normally pretty cheerful person & i try to be there for everyone i can be. But, today i was a little hurt that someone could still talk like this to me after so long & not even knowing who i am anymore.
I wish my husband was here to make everything better because, i know he would. I am beyond lucky...no, not lucky BLESSED to have someone like him that loves me for who i am, cares about me, & wants nothing more than to protect me. Even though he is miles away our marriage is very strong & i don't need to see him everyday or hear from him everyday to know that he loves me more each day. I can feel his love from miles away & it's strong. I have no doubt in my mind that our marriage will continue to be strong & full of love when he gets home. :)
Always Remember, that people have feelings & everyone in this world is cared about and loved, Put yourself in other peoples shoes before you judge them, and remember rumors are just THAT rumors, unless they are told to you by the person in question, don't believe what others have to say about someone & always make your own decisions.
And of course, you don't have to like me or agree with me but, if anything please respect me.
I was told tonight by someone that "they hope my marriage fails quickly"....wow! now, they said a lot of other really mean things to me but, this is the one that hit me right in the gut. You hope my marriage fails quickly? really?...what could i have EVER done that bad for someone to wish that upon me? Now, this person is not a friend of mine(anymore) They once were, i suppose about 4 or 5 years ago when i was dating an ex, let's just say...this person told me something about this certain ex that i didn't believe & chose the ex's side instead...okay, so yes i see that the person that told me was trying to be a friend i get that but, i was also 18 or 19 years old...young, naieve, and blinded by "love". Majority of girls my age back then would have reacted the same way...this person has been holding this grudge against me for that long. I apparently told the whole town what happened, FALSE! I told a few of my best friends at the time that i thought could be trusted, of course i was 18 or 19 i believed everyone back then. Those "friends" of course decided to twist my story a bunch of different ways to this person & instead of this person asking me they believed them. I've apologized a bunch of times to this person about not believing her then, but that was then and this is now i'm older now & have learned a great deal from my mistakes, I got out of that relationship(4-5 years ago!) & am with someone that makes me happier than i have ever been. I do not speak ill of ANY of the parties involved and never have & have always wished the best for every single one of them including the ex..people don't work out & that's the way it goes, we both found better for us & that should be all that matters. But, to wish that my marriage fails quickly is the one of the most horrible things you could say to someone.
And continuing to harrass me about this 4-5 years later is ridiculous & spreading rumors about me? calling me a slut? I've never been with anyone that was not my boyfriend. I've been in 4 "serious" relationships since i was 15(and now i'm 23) and 1 of them is now my husband. And, whatever "good friend" of mine that told this person that i admitted to YOU that i had an STD, you seriously need to check yourself again. I was cheated on by an ex, i got checked and I was clean since then i have had two boyfriends now 1 of them is my husband both have them have both been clean the whole time. So, whoever that so-called "good friend" of mine is you better hope i don't find out it was you spreading this stuff about me.
I am a very good person & i respect everyone i meet. I'm not sure why people always thought it was OK to attack me, bully me, or pick on me ever since i started middle school. I'm human and i have family & friends who do love and care about me and want the best for me & i can't ever help to think about how i'd feel if someone has been doing this to my kid for years no matter what their age & how would you feel? If your kid was being bullied for really no reason at all or if someone you loved & cared about was being attacked & harrassed? thats the kinds of things i think about before i ever talk about, talk down, pick on, harrass, attack, or bully anyone. I always tell myself..."Someone out there loves & cares about that person" I wish more people could think like that. I am a normally pretty cheerful person & i try to be there for everyone i can be. But, today i was a little hurt that someone could still talk like this to me after so long & not even knowing who i am anymore.
I wish my husband was here to make everything better because, i know he would. I am beyond lucky...no, not lucky BLESSED to have someone like him that loves me for who i am, cares about me, & wants nothing more than to protect me. Even though he is miles away our marriage is very strong & i don't need to see him everyday or hear from him everyday to know that he loves me more each day. I can feel his love from miles away & it's strong. I have no doubt in my mind that our marriage will continue to be strong & full of love when he gets home. :)
Always Remember, that people have feelings & everyone in this world is cared about and loved, Put yourself in other peoples shoes before you judge them, and remember rumors are just THAT rumors, unless they are told to you by the person in question, don't believe what others have to say about someone & always make your own decisions.
And of course, you don't have to like me or agree with me but, if anything please respect me.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
When i was afraid of everything, I was never afraid to love you
Hey Ya'll :) Well, i'm just sitting here working on school work(blah) i'm almost finished with this one class i have one more test to go!! i am so over these basic learning classes already & i have SOOO many more to get through!! if you didn't know i'm going to school for Early Childhood Education...eek! not quite sure what i want to do with it yet but atleast it's something :) i think i want to either be a Child Psychologist or a Socail worker one day so eventually i will be getting my Master's in one of those. Long way to go though!!! So, no skype date happened :( the connection over there was horrible...but it's all good because i still go to hear from him and that is more than enough :) So far i am still hanging in there...staying a positive as i can :) i can't believe i've been holding up SO WELL!! Even though i miss the hell out of him i'm doing really well with this and as far as i can tell so is he!! We've got this!!! the days are flying by...soon it will be spring and then summer! i know once the warm weather hits i will be golden & i will continue to keep myself busy and positive! I am certainly going to kick this deployments ass that's for damn sure!
Tonight i went to the little girl i watch's(Katie) talent show :) She did AWESOME!!! She's a gymnast and that was her talent...she rocked it, for sure. Girl always talks about how she is going to be an olypmic medalist! i hope she does someday :) Tomorrow i am going with one of my best friends to the mall and i'm going to build a bear to build something for A!!! i have to make 'Sailor Bear' a wife! 'Sailor Bear' is the bear A made me a few christmases ago and he's my rock through all the underways and deployments!!! So, i figured time for me to send A something that reminds him of me to be his rock when i'm not there! and that will be sent in care package #2 :) i am super excited...I can't wait for A to finally come home he's told me he's bought me so much and i can't wait...he always said that my engagement ring now was just a "for right now" kind of ring and he wanted to buy me something bigger when he was gone...well he did! I would have never asked him to do that i LOVE my original engagement ring SO MUCH!!! but he will do what he wants! A also got another tattoo...which i wasn't as pleased about because i don't think the needs to be wasting his money on it but whatever because this just means it's MY turn to get the tattoo i've been wanting for awhile now! haha!
I have not gone to join the gym yet...i've just been so busy with trying to get this class done so i can start on my next one and just keep rolling with these tests and classes i want to hurry up and get my degree so i can get a grown-up job! i'm ready for it!!! but, i will join the gym as soon as i can...hopefully maybe possibly this weekend. I've got so much stuff coming up...it's going to be a crazy couple of months but it's going to make the time go by faster i hope!!! My deployment chain is getting smaller and smaller i LOVE it!!! :) I can;t believe it's already Feb 11th...i could have sworn yesterday was Feb 1st...where are my days going? staying positive & busy is deff the way to go during this time...i thought my nights and days would drag i'd be so miserable but nope...i'm kicking ass! avoiding all the negative people is deff the way to go also...i just don't want to surround myself with those people that complain all the time and constantly talk about how they want to leave their BF's...if you're so unhappy then just get out of this lifestyle...it's not for everyone and obviously you have so many doubts then you just need to walk away...if you think negatively then your situation will be a negative one...that's the way i see it.
I've also learned that age does not equal maturity...sometimes the people that you look up to as your elders are the most immature people ever. I can't even begin to tell you how disappointed i am in the way some "adults" deal with certain situations esp when someone a lot younger tries to do the right thing and have an adult conversation about it & you get nothing back in return. I've never seen an "adult" act so childish in my life...it is a complete disappointment to me & i can't even begin to explain how upset it makes me that they can't let things go and accept that things happened the way they did and it was for the best. but, i tried & that's it...now the ball is in their court. whatever happens now is up to them! but, enough about that...
I'm so glad i have my husband to be there for me and back me up 100%...people doubt him so much and i don't understand why. He is a very dependable strong man & i wish MORE people saw him that way...i met him when he was 16 and he has grown SO MUCH & matured so much. He always tells me..."Me and you...just us two" and "it's us against the world" and i always thought well what about everyone else? our families? our friends? Well, now i see why he says it. Because, no matter what him and i go through seperately and when we deal with people that don't support our decisions, at the end of the day IT IS just "me and you...just us two" and IT IS just "us against the world" and as long as we have each other we're golden...because only we know how WE feel and we support our decision and each other and no one can tell him or us otherwise...those words mean everything to me now. I am so thankful to have him in my life :)
& i can't wait to see what our future holds...
till next time...
xoxo, C
Tonight i went to the little girl i watch's(Katie) talent show :) She did AWESOME!!! She's a gymnast and that was her talent...she rocked it, for sure. Girl always talks about how she is going to be an olypmic medalist! i hope she does someday :) Tomorrow i am going with one of my best friends to the mall and i'm going to build a bear to build something for A!!! i have to make 'Sailor Bear' a wife! 'Sailor Bear' is the bear A made me a few christmases ago and he's my rock through all the underways and deployments!!! So, i figured time for me to send A something that reminds him of me to be his rock when i'm not there! and that will be sent in care package #2 :) i am super excited...I can't wait for A to finally come home he's told me he's bought me so much and i can't wait...he always said that my engagement ring now was just a "for right now" kind of ring and he wanted to buy me something bigger when he was gone...well he did! I would have never asked him to do that i LOVE my original engagement ring SO MUCH!!! but he will do what he wants! A also got another tattoo...which i wasn't as pleased about because i don't think the needs to be wasting his money on it but whatever because this just means it's MY turn to get the tattoo i've been wanting for awhile now! haha!
I have not gone to join the gym yet...i've just been so busy with trying to get this class done so i can start on my next one and just keep rolling with these tests and classes i want to hurry up and get my degree so i can get a grown-up job! i'm ready for it!!! but, i will join the gym as soon as i can...hopefully maybe possibly this weekend. I've got so much stuff coming up...it's going to be a crazy couple of months but it's going to make the time go by faster i hope!!! My deployment chain is getting smaller and smaller i LOVE it!!! :) I can;t believe it's already Feb 11th...i could have sworn yesterday was Feb 1st...where are my days going? staying positive & busy is deff the way to go during this time...i thought my nights and days would drag i'd be so miserable but nope...i'm kicking ass! avoiding all the negative people is deff the way to go also...i just don't want to surround myself with those people that complain all the time and constantly talk about how they want to leave their BF's...if you're so unhappy then just get out of this lifestyle...it's not for everyone and obviously you have so many doubts then you just need to walk away...if you think negatively then your situation will be a negative one...that's the way i see it.
I've also learned that age does not equal maturity...sometimes the people that you look up to as your elders are the most immature people ever. I can't even begin to tell you how disappointed i am in the way some "adults" deal with certain situations esp when someone a lot younger tries to do the right thing and have an adult conversation about it & you get nothing back in return. I've never seen an "adult" act so childish in my life...it is a complete disappointment to me & i can't even begin to explain how upset it makes me that they can't let things go and accept that things happened the way they did and it was for the best. but, i tried & that's it...now the ball is in their court. whatever happens now is up to them! but, enough about that...
I'm so glad i have my husband to be there for me and back me up 100%...people doubt him so much and i don't understand why. He is a very dependable strong man & i wish MORE people saw him that way...i met him when he was 16 and he has grown SO MUCH & matured so much. He always tells me..."Me and you...just us two" and "it's us against the world" and i always thought well what about everyone else? our families? our friends? Well, now i see why he says it. Because, no matter what him and i go through seperately and when we deal with people that don't support our decisions, at the end of the day IT IS just "me and you...just us two" and IT IS just "us against the world" and as long as we have each other we're golden...because only we know how WE feel and we support our decision and each other and no one can tell him or us otherwise...those words mean everything to me now. I am so thankful to have him in my life :)
& i can't wait to see what our future holds...
till next time...
xoxo, C
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger...
Hey everyone! :) Hope everyone is doing well! I've been doing fabulous...still truckin' along! Well the Packers won the SUPER BOWL! i was super excited even though i didn't win any $$$ this year but, it's okay because the Steelers lost!!! YESSSS! Yesterday was my parents 30th Wedding Anniversary! We went to Olive Garden for dinner & it was yummy! I wish A could have been here with us but, he will be someday! :) i'm about to sit down here and watch the new episode of TEEN MOM tonight! yippy! i love all my shows that come on every week they make the weeks go by quicker! then i'll probably work on some school work, pop in a movie, & hit the sack! Hoping for skype date with A tomorrow...if he gets a good wi-fi connection somewhere over there! haha I'm going to have a busy couple of months coming up with baby showers, bridal showers, & weddings galore! plus throwing in a RACE weekend in there somewhere!
I still have not joined the gym yet...ugh ive been so unmotivated by the cold weather! but i need to get a membership asap & start tanning so i can look good for these weddings i have coming up!! i'm so tired of being pale! yuck! i think maybe i'll try and go tomorrow to sign up...or thursday! haha! i forgot i can't leave the computer much tomorrow so i can possibly catch the husband on skype!!! I wish he was comin home i'm ready for my presents he's been buying me while he's been gone!!! haha Time for me to start care package #2 for him :) I'm way excited to actually get a chance to decorate this one for him since i'll have time & extra money to do so!
I am really glad my husband tries to contact me...not to rub it into anyones face but some people aren't that lucky & i'm super glad my husband tries to email me or call me whenever he might get the chance...i've heard that there are some husbands on board who have been refusing to call their wives and they barely get any emails & some of these husbands have kids at home. you'd think they would want to call to atleast talk to their child...it's very sad but i'm lucky that my husband takes some time out of his day even if he is DEAD TIRED to atleast send me a "Hey baby just wanted to let you know i was thinking about you & i love you" that's all i need to get through most days :) So, i just want to say THANK YOU to my husband he really doesn't know how much i appreciate what he tries to do for me to keep me sane & happy here. I love him to pieces! :)
Well, that's all for tonight not much else going on! lot's to get done soon...& teen mom is on! till next time..
xoxo, C
I still have not joined the gym yet...ugh ive been so unmotivated by the cold weather! but i need to get a membership asap & start tanning so i can look good for these weddings i have coming up!! i'm so tired of being pale! yuck! i think maybe i'll try and go tomorrow to sign up...or thursday! haha! i forgot i can't leave the computer much tomorrow so i can possibly catch the husband on skype!!! I wish he was comin home i'm ready for my presents he's been buying me while he's been gone!!! haha Time for me to start care package #2 for him :) I'm way excited to actually get a chance to decorate this one for him since i'll have time & extra money to do so!
I am really glad my husband tries to contact me...not to rub it into anyones face but some people aren't that lucky & i'm super glad my husband tries to email me or call me whenever he might get the chance...i've heard that there are some husbands on board who have been refusing to call their wives and they barely get any emails & some of these husbands have kids at home. you'd think they would want to call to atleast talk to their child...it's very sad but i'm lucky that my husband takes some time out of his day even if he is DEAD TIRED to atleast send me a "Hey baby just wanted to let you know i was thinking about you & i love you" that's all i need to get through most days :) So, i just want to say THANK YOU to my husband he really doesn't know how much i appreciate what he tries to do for me to keep me sane & happy here. I love him to pieces! :)
Well, that's all for tonight not much else going on! lot's to get done soon...& teen mom is on! till next time..
xoxo, C
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
And i'll go sit on the floor wearing your clothes...
Hey Ya'll :) Well good news my debit card has FINALLY arrived! 2 months of trying to get it and finally it arrived...i feel a lot better now! bills are now all caught up and paid...now i just have to get presents for the birthdays i missed with no card :( Tomorrow i'm going to officially change my name! Exciting! :) and Thursday is my awesome little nephew's 2nd birthday! I can't believe he's turning 2! they grow up so fast! Things have been well around here...still staying positive and enjoying what i do get to hear from A! I feel very lucky & blessed that i do get the communication i do with him :)
Staying positive has helped me get through this so far! i keep myself as busy as i can :) I do school work, I read, I hang out with friends & family, I hang out with an awesome 10 year old every afternoon, & I do anything i can to keep my mind busy! So far, everything i do has been working so, i'm going to keep it up! I know i can get through this and can't wait till i see the light at the end of the this tunnel! :)
I've been reading a book called "Water for Elephants" i heard it was really good but i'm having a hard time getting into it right now...it's supposed to be a movie too so i want to hurry up and finish it before it comes out! I also go Snooki's books on my kindle...haha for some reason i kind of wanted to read that train wreck :) and after Snooki's books i'm going to start reading the Chelsea Lately books! I need to start reading more though...every single day so i can get through all these books!
Super Bowl sunday is coming up!!! i can't wait...i just really hope the STEELERS do not win another superbowl, i really hope the Packers can pull this out :) I mean i really wish the Redskins were in the super bowl ;) haha but we all know that's next years...(hahahah) we'll see! I'm ready for warm weather...I can't wait to skimboard again & when the hubby gets home i want to go surfin' with him! tomorrow it's supposed to be almost 70 degrees & it's such a tease! because thursday it's supposed to go back down the 40's...not fair! come on spring, just come on! Anyways i think i've rambled enough on this blog! not much else to say tonight!! if other military ladies ready this...remember to stay positive! :) ignore the bad, embrace the good. and always always keep your heads up! till next time...
xoxoxo, C
Staying positive has helped me get through this so far! i keep myself as busy as i can :) I do school work, I read, I hang out with friends & family, I hang out with an awesome 10 year old every afternoon, & I do anything i can to keep my mind busy! So far, everything i do has been working so, i'm going to keep it up! I know i can get through this and can't wait till i see the light at the end of the this tunnel! :)
I've been reading a book called "Water for Elephants" i heard it was really good but i'm having a hard time getting into it right now...it's supposed to be a movie too so i want to hurry up and finish it before it comes out! I also go Snooki's books on my kindle...haha for some reason i kind of wanted to read that train wreck :) and after Snooki's books i'm going to start reading the Chelsea Lately books! I need to start reading more though...every single day so i can get through all these books!
Super Bowl sunday is coming up!!! i can't wait...i just really hope the STEELERS do not win another superbowl, i really hope the Packers can pull this out :) I mean i really wish the Redskins were in the super bowl ;) haha but we all know that's next years...(hahahah) we'll see! I'm ready for warm weather...I can't wait to skimboard again & when the hubby gets home i want to go surfin' with him! tomorrow it's supposed to be almost 70 degrees & it's such a tease! because thursday it's supposed to go back down the 40's...not fair! come on spring, just come on! Anyways i think i've rambled enough on this blog! not much else to say tonight!! if other military ladies ready this...remember to stay positive! :) ignore the bad, embrace the good. and always always keep your heads up! till next time...
xoxoxo, C
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